They should not answer ads, and you use a recent photo.

You know, if you are going to use something 10 years old, or when you were 50 pounds lighter, eventually he is going to find out when he meets you.

If he wants to go out afterwards, he has to call you another time and ask you out. Sherrie Schneider and Ellen Fein, thank you very much, and the book is "The Rules for Online Dating." All right.

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THIS COPY MAY NOT BE IN ITS FINAL FORM AND MAY BE UPDATED. Whether true or not, on-line dating is an increasingly popular place for people to greet, and virtually meet. You know any man would be thrilled to take you on a date, much less read your ad, much less respond to your ad.

Married men won't want to meet you after four e-mails. Sherrie, so your last bit advice, after giving yourself a cutoff point, as to how long you keep this dialogue going online, you finally go out for a date.

What is your best advice once you finally hook up with this person face-to-face? Meet in a public place, it should be near where you live, but he should not know where you live, don't give your home or work numbers, and end the date after about an hour.

You -- you write your ad, very briefly as if you -- as if a limousine is waiting to take you somewhere, and you don't have time to talk about how your last relationship didn't work out, and how your ex-husband or your ex-boyfriend hurt you. When they say what are you looking for, you say the least involved thing, a date.

You are safe about it, you don't have men pick you up at your house or your apartment, you meet them at a coffee bar for an hour with a very filled street.